Needs more service industry professionals and meathead ex-con boyfriends.
Here's the story.
We started daycare with this lady (at her house) back in June. Paid a two week deposit, signed a daycare lady contract.
My son wasn't used to daycare, so he was having a rough start. This daycare lady would call almost every other day and say how he was having a rough time, and she wasn't sure what to do. We figured he'd just get used to it. Before he could get used to it, daycare lady calls one day and says she doesn't know what to do anymore, and that she's "never asked a child to leave before." Obviously this lady is not capable of taking care of my son. I have to miss work (again) and I luck out and find him a spot at another awesome daycare down the street.
Here's where it gets hilarious via text:
Hey Daycare Lady- I hope all is going well. I have a question. Since little adebisi was not able to continue at your place, would I be able to get the remainder of our deposit back minus whatever we owe you for the last day of daycare he had.
Adebisi (a week later)
Hi Daycare Lady - did you get my message about the deposit?
I just wanted to apologize again that I couldn't do more for little adebisi ;( I'm happy to hear he's adjusting well with his new daycare: more people and a one room atmosphere really helps some children with a separation anxiety.
As for the deposit, in my contract it states that if you choose to pull your child for whatever reason and not give two weeks notice that you lose your deposit as that's pay that I bank on being there for when I do my budgeting. I put that in my contract to protect myself in case a child leaves and I'm without pay for two weeks.
I hope this doesn't cause any ill will as I think very highly of you guys but I try and separate business from anything else. HOWEVER, I can play back up date night daycare anytime I know the girls would have a blast.
"I've never asked a child to leave before but I just don't know what to do". This is the quote you gave Mrs Adebisi when you called us and told us that you could not take care of Little Adebisi. This was not us pulling our child from daycare and not giving two weeks notice. This was you informing us that you do not want to care for our child anymore.
I would ask again that you return our deposit minus the one day care you provided.
I give families two weeks notice to find alternate care. Just saying good luck and be off with you is something I don't do. I give written notice. You found care I believe the day after. ?
I tried everything with little adebisi.
You gave us no notice. You told us we had to come pick up little adebisi.
I had to miss work, multiple times.
Like other days I had to call as he was having a bad day.
This is all I will say about it. Please do the right thing
Threats ? I didnt realize this was such a huge problam since so much time has gone by. Have your lawyer contact me. I wont deal with a threat. Good night Adebisi.
So yeah. I'm sure the contract does indeed say what she says it said. But ... jesus christ, you suck.
Any small claims action you think? I'm in Ontario Canada BTW
PS: You like how she's all "THREATS???"
Last edited by Barraco Bisi; 08-21-2013 at 12:44 AM.
Needs more service industry professionals and meathead ex-con boyfriends.
Not much, really. $300 deposit, and I'd try to make her pay for the work I had to take off.
Maybe $500 tops. Maybe I could make her pay me for the two weeks notice she didn't give _me_ in daycare price.
Cliche: It's the principle dammit!
No way you get the money back. Just shit all over her in some online reviews.
sadness consumes me.
I need to be sure here: did I sound threatening at all in that exchange? I think she's got a case of the crazies.
Fair enough, I've put in way more effort for a lot less money purely out of principle and/or spite.
I went to the Charlie Day School of Law, so I'm pretty well versed in these things. My school transcript is in the spoiler.
But I dont think you're getting your loot back even if you go the legal route.
I agree with the plucky young man with a lower case first letter.
Alright, plan B.
Can I legally shit on this person's lawn?
Just write her a bad review on Yelp and move on. Probably won't be worth the $300 for the amount of effort you will have to put into pursuing it (although I admittedly don't know shit about Canada small-claims law).
I almost want to send her one last message.
"You won't hear from me again. I'm just disappointed in you."
Deep shit. Like something God would do to you.
You can legally shit all over her on the internet.
When a place of business fucked me over like 2 years ago for like $140, I registered www.________sucks.com, put wordpress on it, did SEO on it, directed all people to their competitors and bought a bunch of backlinks on fiverr
it cost me like $400 altogether but it was worth it. site is still there 2 years later, has a page rank of 2 i think, and is shitting all over them to this day
I'd totally do the Araysar approach, but I doubt anyone would notice. It's a shitty daycare in a little town
this was a high end boutique in a fairly well to do part of chicago
so yeah, probably wouldnt work for you
Burn her house down with the children inside.
Get a sign that says "this day care kicked out my kid and ripped me off" and stand out in front of her place while all her other clients are dropping off their kids and tell them what happened. Let her know that a check for $300 will instantly get rid of you.
EDIT: Also tell them that your kid caught herpes.
GOD DAMMIT ARAYSAR. GOD FUCKING DAMMIT. STOP. STOP WITH THE FUCKING SIG.
Can I be part of your big plans?
Why go complex. Just post something on yelp along the lines of "My kid wasnt given medicine they needed and had to go to the hospital." in more words. Whenever someone scams you, return the favor. Negative reviews wont scare people away, but blatant threats to their child's safety will make people consider the place down the road.
I'd move on, personally. I don't mean to be offensive but I can only imagine the kind of shit your kid pulled in the daycare to get kicked out, so I figure she earned that deposit.
Just post up the yelp address. We all leave bad reviews.. pretty much ruined at that point. Yelp is a hell of a drug. Crap on google reviews while we're there. Any time someone looks up directions or googles the name, they'll see 1 star.
Demand repayment in blowjobs. At first she will be offended, but when you threaten to take her to small claims court she will buckle and agree.
Go to the daycare. Point at the cutest kid.
"I'll take that one."
I've been told that I have a way with words. My reviews are scathing.
Now lets see that yelp address. I guarantee instant satisfaction.
yeah dog. Yelp is insane. you should see shit that happened to a shitty restaurant in arizona after gordon ramsay visited it last season. their yelp page is still a smoldering pile of negativity to this day. i will happyily yelp neg this daycare bitch for yall.
Anytime you're about to read a story about someone being scammed, there's probably more than a 25% chance the culprit is a daycare, or a daycare professional. It's fucked up.
It's these money hungry, unemployable, stay at home moms!
They want to take your cash, ignore your kids, and browse facebook all day I tells ya.
I put lil Adebisi into an early learning center and he's been great ever since. My wallet is not great, but he's great!
Daycare lady is probably fat and little adebisi was probably all like "gimme some a dem curves, bitch!"
I don't have the hate in me now enough to write a yelp. I guess you just gotta unrustle and move on
If your kid is fine in the new place, either she is shit or she is kicking the occasional kid out on purpose to get free deposit money.
Take her to judge Judy, get a free trip to New York. Let us know when it airs, wear a tie with dice on it.
So far your two best options are the, "i'm just disappointed in you" text and standing outside her home with a sign.
otherwise just move on. Yelp is for little bitches who don't have the balls to complain in person.
Find all social media outlets for the place and have the internet take a dump on them.
Then leave a flaming bag of dog poo on her porch and ring the doorbell. Observe. Come back and declare victory.
Seriously, is your kid an asshole? Like, what was he doing? I'm TRULY interested, for a grown woman to just be like "well fuck this" and give up on lil Adebisi.
Does your son suck bro? Is not a true bro?
If daycare in Canada is anything like Illinois, any dumbfuck who can fill out paperwork and pass an inspection can get a daycare license and run it out of there home. Most of these people are not "professionals".
For that reason I am giving my pal Adebisi the benefit of the doubt.
Daycare lady said he was too needy and always needed her to be close by or he would get upset. I mean what do you expect from a 12 month old who's away from his family for the first time ever
I think she was in over her head.
Just drop your kids off with me. I have a lot of time on my hands these days.
How much per day for Araycare?
Anyone else had shit experiences with daycare? I lucked out with the first kid. She went through two daycare providers before she started school and I never had any issues.
Your kid is going to grow up a Patriotic, spandex wearing, Bears-loving dumbass, Adebisi.
Unleash the ReRolled tits for votes system. Show us some titties and get people to slander them anonymously over the internet. Beware of the potential for shenanigans though, as this can be a double edged sword once the sick fucks around here get involved like this.
Follow the Karmic Rule of Property Destruction. For the amount she screwed you out of, revisit on her three-fold. She dinged you for $300, screw her out of $900. Slash all her tires, ruin her siding with something that fucks up the paint, send in a fake order for one of those 12 foot long sub sandwiches and have it delivered to her during nap time, paint a giant swastika on her garage door during the night so that the parents see it when they go to drop off their kids then take a picture of it and post it on the net with a clever headline, throw some dead fish into her crawlspaces then report her to the health dept, etc etc. Get creative! (while not getting caught).
Sounds like you have a little demon beast of a child, no parenting skills, and the propensity to blame others for your problems. She deserves your money.
You guys get the part where this is a 1 year old baby right? I don't think parenting style is a huge factor at this point.
Drench the bears in syrup? How is that helpful AT ALL?
Has Izo weighed in on Adebisi's parenting skills yet?
He's RRP'd I think. I'm interested in his stance on vaporizing around children.
thats kinda fucked up to put a 1 year old in daycare, don't you want your kid to grow up and become president or king of canada. first I'd suggest you dump your wife and remarry an asian, plenty up there in canada and you get free babysitting thanks to grandma flying over and living with you forever. if that is not an option, go on canadian welfare and stay at home, take care of your kid, and play mmos all day
best thing is just to ask yourself, what would heisenberg do
But he's in superdaycare now. Those ones run by an army of childcare pros. \He comes home happy every day and his caregivers are all hotties. It's pretty awesome.
So step 2 was to make my millions. I have big ideas my friends. Just need to execute.
What is with all the Asians in Canada, Adebisi?
No Asians in my town, Soy. You're thinking of Toronto and Vancouver. Especially Vancouver.
Correction. I have Asians living across the street. Guess what business they own?
You visiting, Soy?
I was in Niagara and Toronto last weekend for my girlfriend's family reunion. She's Asian too, so you can imagine the fucking Asian-overload I was on. I was the only white boy in attendance. Most of her family members who live in Canada, though, are in Saskatoon.
A whole lotta nuthing in Saskatoon. I'm about 100 miles from Niagara. Did they make you go to the casinos? Asians love casinos.
No, we didn't go to any casinos. It's too bad. I wanted to play the "Are you mad you can't bet on yellow at the roulette table?"
Don't tell me you just stared at the falls and left. After you look at the water running over the rocks, the next logical activity is to lose all your money at sic bo.
What did you do in Toronto? Did you watch the Jays lose?
We did some touristy shit in Toronto. We went to some brewery with a train in the yard and went up in the CN Tower. Back in Niagara we did the Maid of the Mists and the falls crap, but we also did some of the speed boats in the rapids and that was fun as shit.
Steam Whistle Brewery.
They did that place up nice.
Yeah, was very cool with all of the old locomotive 'garages' and shit. I enjoyed Toronto. Niagara is way too touristy for me though. I'd rather see nature, etc. Maybe on my next trip. I'll hit you up so you can warm up The Big Green Egg.
Can you fags take this to the PMs? I want to know about Adebisi shitting on this woman's lawn and stuff. Not you two homos planning your sexual encounters.
Just drive by one night when the kids are all gone and shoot up the place, then call her a couple days later and say I heard about what happened
Absurd, isn't it? [ref link]
Thread did not deliver. Basically you got beat by a stay at home mom and then she punked you with the threats comment. Totally disarmed you. Lol
Did you miss the part where I said I was going to get her back by living a long and healthy life?
I just want it noted that I support the bears and syrup idea. No need to deprive bears of syrup.
I'll watch your kid and save you some money too. Let's say $160 dollars daily? I'm twice the daycare pro she was and little shithead can do whatever the fuck he wants. No fucking hotties included but I can get a cheap prostitute to hang out at the front area when you are ready to pick him up. No extra change but all you get is a BJ unless you have some little pills and that's not in my contract. Hit me up when you're ready for me to teach him. Better than Araysar turning him into a little commie bastard right?
Dude mentions sex within 3 sentences of his pitch to be a childcare provider.
I hated day care when I was little. They made us nap on thin plastic mats, and kept screaming at us, "If you don't eat yer meat, you can't have any pudding. How can you
have any pudding if you don't eat yer meat?"
To this day, I have trouble eating pudding.
Well, eat your goddamn meat then sheesh.
I don't remember any school before my 3rd grade except for some reason the "nap" cubbies in my daycare. Those cubbies were so comfy!
In murica we have small claims court. Do u has that in canadia?
Don't stammer, make eye contact, don't wear flannel, and don't shuffle your papers. You'll do alright.
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